Old True Memory: My wife getting upset at me, "I hate that about you, you'll give someone the shirt off your back if you think they need it more than you!"
"Only if I know they are in REAL need or if I know I can easily replace it." Guess that attitude is showing up here too.
I'd probably have double or triple the gold I have is I wasn't as generous as I am. But I'm at the stage mow that I realize soon I'll me dealing in millions so time to slow down a bit
I've noticed even at Castle M (Mertal?)¹ that I'm a bit too much (73) as well. So next time I'll just go and tank there too. In my early game play I had no idea where Castle M was and I kept getting Ashdown² and K-Village¹ mixed up. Kept wanting to type Kensington after the 70's Cdn TV series The King of Kensington. But, once I was in the Ashdown Store when the attach hit, I was low enough to enjoy the fray and reap the benefits, next time I saw the system notice I made a beeline for Ashdown and saw some higher level player 'tanking' (didn't know that word then) for us. So you see, I learned for watching the actions of others.
¹ - it's an age thing - memory is working at 100% - it's the recall part that's dropping in percentile.

² - This I remember for personal reasons (and they are not at all good) and Ashdown game play is helping to change that.
Yesterday some kind player gave me three really nice pieces of equipment, with a "Sell those" Withe a "TY and a PM "Do I know you?" the response was "No, you don't" Today I can't even recall the persona name BUT, one of those pieces has my name on it, the second is going to someone who is getting me a piece of gear at 1/2 the price - for a straight trade. The third will go to someone I think deserves it as I do my daily travels.
I'm also doing some mining for one of those friends that has surpassed me in lvl's (76) to make an iron plate for me so it will be in my inventory when I hit (75)